| Dating is a crazy thing. Most people on
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| | have her
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| our
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| | some you around a bit, which is good.As
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| society haven't figured it out.But it's
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| | I mentioned earlier, I like coffeeshops.
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| pretty cool once you've gotten it
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| | Starbucks-esque places are okay, but I
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| figured, like my good friend and parter
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| | really
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| Vincent
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| | like artistic coffee shops, with
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| DiCarlo.Allow me to share with you Vin's
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| | different music
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| Three Rules of
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| | and fun things to look at. My favorite
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| Dating:1) Have it be convenient for
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| | coffeeshop
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| you.2) Keep it inexpensive.3) Make sure
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| | of all time had different music playing
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| you can talk where you're at.Or, if you
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| | every
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| prefer, The Three C's of Dating:C1)
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| | time I went, interesting local art on
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| Convenient.C2) Cheap.C3)
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| | the walls,
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| Conversation.This will give you the best
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| | and one of the large unisex bathrooms
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| chance to get the
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| | had
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| girl. Dates that are not Convenient for
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| | floor-to-ceiling chalkboards lining all
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| you will
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| | four
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| make you seem like you're working hard
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| | walls. People would write poetry and
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| to impress
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| | draw
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| her, or of low status. For this reason,
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| | pictures on the chalkboards, or just
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| don't
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| | sign their
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| drive three hours to see her, and
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| | name. Let me tell you, my friend, that
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| certainly don't
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| | was the
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| plan a grand production with a limo and
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| | easiest bathroom in the world to get
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| a string
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| | your date
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| quartet for your first dat.Cheap! Cheap
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| | into with you!Another date I like:
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| is good. Cheap is no pressure. A
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| | Window shopping. If you walk
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| woman would rather have a pleasant walk
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| | through a mall, there's going to be
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| through a
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| | plenty of
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| park with a guy that's no pressure than
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| | interesting stores. You can have a cup
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| go out to
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| | of coffee
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| eat an expensive restaurant that's heavy
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| | if you like coffee (or tea or hot
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| pressure. As a general rule, the more
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| | chocolate or
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| something
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| | whatever), and walk around looking at
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| costs, the more pressure is involved.
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| | interesting
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| Also, women
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| | things. One of my favorite shops is a
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| don't want to feel like you're trying to
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| | large
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| buy
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| | kitchen shop with all sorts of cool
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| their attention. For these reasons, it's
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| | things.
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| actually
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| | They've got all sorts of crazy cooking
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| better to keep dates cheap. I'm not
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| | instruments, various pots and steamers
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| saying BE
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| | for all
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| cheap, I'm saying go on inexpensive
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| | different types of cuisine, recipes and
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| dates.And conversation, the all important
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| | sauces ,
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| thing that
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| | cool looking plates, and anything and
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| lets you find about each other. You need
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| | everything
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| a date
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| | else you could imagine. From there, it's
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| that lets conversation go smoothly and
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| | really
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| easily.Here's a pop quiz - What are the
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| | easy to situationally relevantly talk
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| two most common
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| | about what
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| dates?If you answered movies and dinner,
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| | she can cook, and what she's going to
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| you're
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| | cook for
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| correct. But both violate cardinal rules
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| | you!Walk into whatever stores you
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| of
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| | please. Just be
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| dating.With a movie, there's no chance
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| | careful with Victoria's Secret: Vincent
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| for conversation.
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| | once was
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| For two hours, you're sitting there in
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| | in Victoria's with a girl he was on a
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| the dark
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| | date with,
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| and can't really talk. That's all well
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| | holding up lingerie and talking about
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| and good
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| | she'd look
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| if you're with your girlfriend, but on
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| | good in. His date was loving it, eating
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| the first
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| | it up,
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| few dates, you don't want that. And as
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| | but then her friend walked over! Yikes,
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| an
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| | Vin tells
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| additional negative, movies are getting
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| | me the girl blushed pretty hard.Other
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| more and
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| | places to go: Walks through parks, and by
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| more expensive these guys. It could cost
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| | rivers and ponds. Free or cheap baseball
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| $30 for
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| | games,
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| two tickets, popcorn, and drinks these
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| | either a local team's or even a nearby
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| days. How
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| | school's.
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| it costs that much is beyond me, but
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| | Iceskating and rollerskating are
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| that's too
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| | actually pretty
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| expensive for a first day for
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| | good first dates. They're cheap if you
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| sure.Dinner. Well, dinner's not cheap.
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| | go on
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| Even cheap
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| | their discount night (it's Tuesday at my
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| dinner's not cheap. So she might feel
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| | favorite
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| like you're
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| | rollerskating place), it's convenient
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| trying to buy her attention, which is
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| | for me, and
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| always bad.
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| | it's great for conversation. And by the
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| It makes women uncomfortable, and makes
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| | way, I'm
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| her think
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| | not exactly the best rollerskater in the
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| you're of low status. Like you need to
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| | world.
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| buy her
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| | In fact, I'll admit it: I'm downright
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| attention.But here's something many
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| | terrible.But it works well anyway! I say
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| people don't realize
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| | to her as we're
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| about dinner: It's bad for conversation.
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| | walking in, "Okay, I can't skate at all,
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| You're
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| | so
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| sitting directly across from each other
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| | you're going to have to kinda 'be the
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| with very
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| | guy' and
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| little subject matter except for menus.
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| | hold my hand and make sure I don't fall
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| There's
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| | over,"
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| lots of pressure, and if the
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| | said half-kiddingly. And to top it off,
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| conversation slows
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| | when we
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| down, it can be awkward, which wouldn't
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| | get our skates, I say, "You got this
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| be the
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| | one?"
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| case in many of the dates I'm about to
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| | Meaning, "Are you paying?" They do most
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| suggest
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| | of the
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| for you. Planning dinner as part of a
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| | time, and it sets a good frame.Alright,
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| date is no
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| | so you've gone on a fun date or two with
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| good, so leave it alone.Good
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| | her. First you met for coffee, then
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| Dates:Remember, you want your dates to be
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| | walked around
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| Convenient,
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| | and went window shopping and looked at
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| Cheap, and be able to have some nice
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| | stores,
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| Conversation. How to do that?A favorite
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| | had a bite to eat, and parted. Second
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| 'date suggestion' from me is coffee. I
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| | date, you
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| like coffee, since you've got options.
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| | went rollerskating or to one of those
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| You go get
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| | fun museums
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| a cup of java with her on a Saturday
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| | like the Spy Museum in D.C. Now, you
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| afternoon.
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| | want to have
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| If she shows up and turns out to be the
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| | her over to your place. What's a good
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| type of
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| | date for
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| girl you don't like (either she's not
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| | that?Cooking dinner with her.One of the
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| physically
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| | best dates before you sleep with a
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| your type on further inspection, or has
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| | woman. Not so good first date, but after
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| nothing
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| | that,
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| going on upstairs) then you can leave no
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| | it's great. Now, I don't want to hear
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| problem.But if she turns out to be an
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| | you can't
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| awesome girl? After
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| | cook - I can't, either. I make exactly
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| coffee, you can go grab a slice of
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| | one dish
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| pizza. Yes,
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| | well that doesn't involve grilling. But
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| it's okay to eat on dates... making your
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| | that's
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| date
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| | all I need. I make a spaghetti with a
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| itself getting a meal is bad, but if
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| | mushroom
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| you're
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| | and onion meat sauce, and French bread.
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| spending time together and get hungry,
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| | It's not
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| go eat.
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| | hard.Learn one dish, or just have a
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| You're basically treating her like
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| | general idea of
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| someone you're
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| | what you want to make. Then go over to
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| very comfortable with. If you went to
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| | her place
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| get coffee
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| | with the ingrediants, or have her come
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| with a close friend, or one of your
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| | over to
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| relatives
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| | yours. From there, give her duties as
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| that you like, and got hungry, you'd say
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| | you cook. I
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| let's go
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| | have my date stir the pasta or sauce
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| grab a bite to eat. No pressure
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| | while I dice
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| there.Here's a great line if you're at
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| | up vegetables and get the meat
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| coffee: "You
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| | ready.After we make a mess cooking, we
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| hungry?" If she answers yes, you say,
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| | wash up and chat
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| "Okay me
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| | waiting for dinner to finish. Then we
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| too, let's grab a slice of pizza." If
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| | eat dinner,
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| she says
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| | and maybe a little fresh fruit at the
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| no, you say, "That's okay, you can watch
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| | end. Having
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| me eat."
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| | her feed you strawberries is a nice
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| The second one, in particular, gets
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| | touch if you
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| wonderful
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| | can pull it off.And from there, use your
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| results and you just eat something light
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| | imagination. When it
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| in front
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| | comes time to bring them to the bedroom,
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| of her and keep conversing.Other things:
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| | remember
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| Walk around and look at touristy
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| | to use situational relevance. So you can
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| stuff if you live in a city. Believe it
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| | either
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| or not,
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| | start kissing her in the living room,
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| most people never see the sites in their
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| | then bring
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| home
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| | her by the hand to the bedroom, or you
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| city. I live on the East Coast, and I've
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| | can say
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| never
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| | there's something interesting in your
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| seen the Statue of Libery in New York
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| | bedroom
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| City, never
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| | that she just needs to see...Sebastian
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| walked the Freedom Trail in Boston, and
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| | Drake has been writing in the fields of
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| haven't
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| | Seduction, Diplomacy, and Leadership for
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| been to any of the memorials in
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| | the past five years. In the past two
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| Washington D.C.
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| | years, he has won praise and accolodates
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| Of course, I've seen all the touristy
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| | for his oustanding and effective coaching
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| stuff in
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| | on live programs, workshops, and
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| London and Mexico City and many western
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| | seminars. He is a cofounder of
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| states,
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| | theApproach: The Science of Social
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| but that's the point. If you walk down
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| | Chemistry for the Modern Gentleman,
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| the road
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| | life.Find out what your skill level is
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| she's never been there.Of course, if
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| | the book 'The Game'.
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