| It seems that when I honor the ending,
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| | more with the guts than with the heart. I
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| the beginning is more joyous. I admit, I
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| | consider that my inner promptings (which
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| do not always remember to honor the
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| | are usually heart-based) guide me to
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| ending. Sometimes I just want the ending
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| | where I need to be, but to act in the
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| to end or the beginning to begin.As
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| | midst of doubt takes guts.Sometimes pure
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| infants, we end our time in the womb to
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| | tenacity propels me. I have often
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| begin our human experience. The other
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| | recognized that I would not have moved to
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| day, I met a less-than-one-week-old (or
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| | California, for example, if I had known
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| is that new?) baby, filled with health
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| | what a grueling experience those first
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| and wonder, beginning a new life. He was
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| | few years would be. I trusted the process
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| clearly ready to begin this life, keeping
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| | of my inner guidance and bloomed where I
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| his Mom in labor for only thirty
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| | was planted. Courage and trust are my
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| minutes.I have had many beginnings
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| | keys to joy and transformation.Creative
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| endings in my life. Probably not more
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| | ResistanceI have not met every life
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| than most people. Some changes have been
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| | change with happy, welcoming arms. Going
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| elegant, some clumsy. Some have been so
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| | with kicks and screams into something new
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| quick that I did not realize the
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| | may seem like a poor attitude, but such
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| transformation until it was essentially
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| | dynamics may be precisely what I needed
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| complete, while some have seemed so slow
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| | to propel me into the new.In my days of
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| that I wondered if this is what is meant
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| | training managers and others in New York
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| by eternity. Not all beginnings and
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| | State Government, I learned more about
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| endings have been sweet or desired. But
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| | dealing with resistance than in any other
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| each has led to more joy.Courage and
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| | setting. I learned to welcome the
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| TrustMany of the planned beginnings
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| | expression of resistance, but did not
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| endings have been pure acts of courage:
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| | feel so adept at dealing with unexpressed
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| to get married, to start a business, to
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| | (passive) resistance.In the early years
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| go to graduate school, to leave a
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| | of my business, I offered experiential
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| long-term marriage, to relocate my
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| | training programs, primarily for trainers
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| business (twice!), to move across
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| | and managers. A former police officer
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| country, to end non-satisfying
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| | showed up the first day of a 3-day event,
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| relationships, and on and on. Even those
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| | loudly displaying his skepticism. His
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| changes that have not been planned have
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| | energy was intense, a bit unnerving for
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| required courage to carry through.Of
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| | some of the participants. But I welcomed
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| course, everyone knows that the origin
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| | his energy, hoping that he would find the
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| for the word "courage" is "heart." I feel
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| | inspiration to leave with the same level
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| that connection between courage and
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| | of intensity, with his skepticism
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| heart, however, as a matter of
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| | transformed to enthusiasm.
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| practicality for me, I associate courage
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